I get several questions on my inbox about “how do I really move on so easily” Well in fact, it’s not easy. Thinking about him at night and wishing that he was here with me, crying myself to sleep covered with blankets and pillows, was one of the greatest challenges I’ve faced in life. But this break up won’t break me up as an individual. 

1. I don’t think that it’s the end of the world, even if he left. Because it’s not. He just left. I won’t die if he’s gone. Yes, it will hurt, but it will not be the end of the world. Do not exaggerate.
2. I cry. Whenever I feel like crying because I miss him and there’s nothing I can do to have him back, I imagine scenes in my head on how do I release these emotions. I imagine that I’m talking to him and I’m telling him all the painful feelings that I feel. This way, I can release the sad feeling inside my heart.
3. I blog. Through writing and penning down my thoughts, I also release the painful feelings inside. Then I’ll suddenly think that I’m already okay.
4. I make myself believe that there’s still that someone who will come to my life who will never be like my ex. I put in mind that even after this break up, I will find someone who will never leave me because he loves me.
5. I don’t wish for another chance. Okay, no matter how much I really wanted him back, I don’t put in mind that someday we’ll get back together. Because that way, I will only assume and I will only hurt myself if it wouldn’t happen.
6. I don’t stalk his profile anymore. Yes, I can see his Facebook updates, but I don’t dare to stalk all his updates. By ignoring all his posts, I feel like I’m a stronger person, because the person whom I cannot ignore before is already someone whom I can ignore now.
7. I don’t send him sad text messages/GMs. I will only look pathetic. Yes, I text him if I need to, but only to be civil with each other, I do not text him anything regarding our past relationship.

I miss my ex, yes. That wouldn’t be new. I still think that “What if we didn’t break up, how will our relationship go right now?” But, that’s life. People come and go. And when someone left you, that doesn’t mean that it’s the end of your life. It’s the end of their roles in your life. Girl, you are worth someone’s love, who will never leave you and will fight for your relationship until the end. So don’t be afraid that after a break up, you will never be loved again. Because you will. And this time, you will be loved more.

THE MOST SELFISH 1 LETTER WORD - I - AVOID IT. 
 

THE MOST SATISFYING 2 LETTER WORD - WE - USE IT. 
 

THE MOST POISONOUS 3 LETTER WORD - EGO - KILL IT. 
 

THE MOST USED 4 LETTER WORD - LOVE - VALUE IT. 
 

THE MOST PLEASING 5 LETTER WORD - SMILE - KEEP IT. 
 

THE FASTEST SPREADING 6 LETTER WORD - RUMOUR - IGNORE IT. 
 

THE HARDEST WORKING 7 LETTER WORD - SUCCESS - ACHIEVE IT. 

THE MOST ENVIABLE 8 LETTER WORD - JEALOUSY - DISTANCE IT. 
 

THE MOST POWERFUL 9 LETTER WORD - KNOWLEDGE - ACQUIRE IT. 
 

THE MOST ESSENTIAL 10 LETTER WORD - CONFIDENCE - TRUST IT.

But what is more painful is to love someone and never

find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
 

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who

means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was

never meant to be and you just have to let go.
 

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a

porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away

feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
 

4. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose

it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been

missing until it arrives.
 

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an

hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it

takes a lifetime to forget someone.
 

6. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth,

even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you

smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day

seem bright.
 

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,

be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and

one chance to do all the things you want to do.
 

8. Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it

hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.
 

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck

a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may

heal and bless.
 

10. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best

of everything they just make the most of everything that comes

along their way.
 

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with

a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone

around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,

you’re the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Dear Ex Boyfriend: When I think about “us”, it surprisingly makes me smile instead of cry because I’m very thankful for having you as a part of a chapter of my life. You’ve treated me so well, and you still care ‘til this day. You are an amazing individual and I will always love you, don’t ever forget that

Kumusta ka naman? Alam mo bang miss na miss na kita?

Ako kasi okay naman e.

I have my friends.

nag eenjoy ako pag kasama sila

Pero alam mo yung feeling na may kulang?

Okay ako sa paraang

kahit paunti unti natututo na kong mag move on.

Kinikilig ako sa iba minsan.

Pero at the end of the day.

Ikaw parin e.

Kainis nga minsan e. Kasi akala ko, okay na ko.

tapos pag mag isa nalang ako naalala nanaman kita.

Hindi ako naiinis dahil ikaw ang naalala ko.

Naiinis ako dahil alam kong wala ng TAYO.

Wag mo sanang iisipin na dahil kinikilig ako sakanya. Eh nakalimutan na kita.

Kasi alam mo? Sa totoo lang, Mahal parin kita.

Pero I choose to love you in silence nalang. Kasi in there,

I find no rejection.